Coping Skill: Breathing

Trace 8 Breathing COPECARD®

How It Works

Our autonomic (involuntary) nervous system keeps our heart beating, blood flowing, lungs breathing, and stomach digesting. It has two main parts:  the sympathetic – our emergency response system (“fight or flight”) and the parasympathetic – the daily maintenance system (“rest and relax”). During the stress/response cycle, with muscles needing 15 to 25 times more oxygen to move quickly, the sympathetic increases our respiratory rate, producing shallow, fast breathing.  After the threat is over, the parasympathetic returns our breathing rate to normal except if we get overwhelmed and “stuck in alarm mode” (fight or flight). We can then use deep, slow breathing skills to send body messages to our brain to calm down, breaking the stress/response cycle.  Breathing is the only involuntary function that we can control, making this skill critically important to stress management and trauma recovery. It is a fast acting, stress reliever.

How to Use

Use pointer finger to trace the figure eight. Breathe in as you trace one side of the figure eight, breathe out as trace the other side. Take deep, slow, gentle breaths of equal duration of inhalation and exhalation. Breathe into your stomach, watch your belly rise, and then fill your lungs. Breathe out from your stomach first. Try breathing in through your nose and breathing out through pursed lips. Feel the card as you go. Change directions. Draw a figure eight in the air, repeating the same breathing sequence. Trace an imaginary figure eight on your arm or leg for more multi-sensory engagement.

When to Use - Signs of Stress/Trauma

  • feeling upset: crying, shaking

  • anxious, panicked, feeling trapped

  • withdrawn, immobilized, freezing, not moving

  • can’t think, decide, concentrate; feeling confused

  • not able to follow directions

  • hyperventilating: rapid breathing, racing/pounding heartbeat, lightheaded, fingers tingling

  • increased blood pressure, sweating, headache, blurry vision

  • hyper-arousal: jumpy, agitated, explosive

  • panic attack symptoms

What It Can Do

  • decrease anxiety, distress; feel calmer

  • decrease physical tension

  • increase control over feelings (self-regulation)

  • increase concentration, problem solving, ability to think clearly

  • increase social engagement

  • increase compliance – ability to follow directions

  • promote return to normal breathing rate, heart rate & blood pressure

  • improve oxygenation of the brain

“Restoring a sense of self is critically important in recovering from trauma. Body-centered activities like deep breathing exercises help us regulate our internal states and restore and repair the connection between our minds and our bodies. “ – Bessel Van Der Kolk, Trauma Expert